Valentina's retrospective

My daughter did 7 years. Follow the retrospective with great moments...

A nice week. See you...

An homage on Mother's Day

This is a single homage that I would like to dedicate to my mother, wife, sister (like a second mom for my daughter), and all the other mothers in this world. A poem that I have written and recite now...

LIKE BE A MOM

What is like to be a mother?

Likely this is more than to be a father.

If I can love my child unconditionally,

A mom has a love specifically.

If I may feel what I feel,

I can imagine as be a mom is more real.

There is a physical bond created,

That I will never experienced.

This physical bond is special

Feed, protect, nourish, foretell,

Inside an umbilical cord,

There is a special feeling support.

Can bear a baby within the body,

Nourish the small with the breast apt.

These abilities are a sacred gift,

That only a woman has the ability.

I'll never understand like is to be a mother,

Because as a man I am improper, 

However I have a wife, a sister, a mom,

That can justify the bloom.

I'm not here to complain,

But to understand again,

That nothing in this world is bigger,

Than a maternal stand trigger.

Mother's Day is subliminal,

Be a mom is bigger than all.

This special day unveil,

More than a comercial avail.

Say that I love my mother,

Is more essential than utter.

Thanks my wife super mild,

For being the best mom to my child.

Might be possible to compare?

No, to be a mother is a bless.

Hallowed be God creator of maternity,

Allowing the miracle of life reality.

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Thanks a lot... See you soon.

An analysis on the searching for felicity

Let's continue our discussion about happiness with another perspective. The new way to search bliss in our society.

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Understanding peers to build up good relationships

Why are relationships so tough? Why can we not understand our peers? Why do we have difficulty to find out what they are thinking or what motivates them? Our bigger problem is that we can not change people at their core, and we know less about our fellows than we think. When you are trying to have a fruitful relationship with people within your company, school, church, home, or everywhere, remember that it is necessary the development of two components: firstly, you need to develop the ability to read people, and secondly, you need a general understanding of the overall patters of human behavior.

When we are considering other people, we must take care about our considerations. We need to understand that our form to think the world and the happenings around it can be different. Moreover, we have the tendency to suppose our truth on the things being truly veracity. Each person has its own truth. We are not the owner of the truth. Therefore, we should learn about the others. It is necessary pay attention to the minimal details like their tone of voice, the look in their eye, their body language, all signals, and mainly it is necessary put other peers inside a context. They have a singular family, a specific education, a particular mindset, a unique way to live with emotions, a explicit culture, and many circumstantial characteristics more. Although can be difficult we need to consider that our form to live can be singular in relation with others. Thus, we are not the center of the world, but part of it. The entire world has divergent ways of thinking, acting and decision. Then, do not establish the correct way of thinking and behaving, because its righteous way might not exist.
Then, what is the solution? Learn to read other people, considering always the diferences and singularities. When you pay attention to the minimal details and you are open minded you tend to grow up fast in relationships.
On the other hand, we can consider some elements as deadly realities of human behavior. Even though each fellow can be unique and singular, the studies have sticked to some important points about negative qualities inside humankind. Weigh these seven points when you are trying to increase your skills in relationships.
1- ENVY: Despite a big deal of us deny it, we are envious people. It is our nature to constantly compare ourselves to others. If it is about skills, beauty, position or other aspects, surely we will always suffer with envious behavior.
2- CONFORMISM: People tend to establish good relationships with others who share the same kind of ideas, because those who are markedly different make them feel uncomfortable and insecure. Thus, you will have always people that exclude you because they can not live with your way of realize and do things.
3- RIGIDITY: People tend to believe in things that worked in the past, therefore they follow procedures that they believe to be correct. Even though you consider them irrational concepts, might be useless to fight against them.
4- SELF-OBSESSIVENESS: People are always considering themselves before you. They want to be succeeded, promoted and rise up fast. Thus, narcissism is something you can seldom reject.
5- LAZINESS: Rarely people want to establish an effort to construct success, instead of that, it is easier steal best ideas from others, or equally share the success of the fellow without big effort. Be wary of people who want to collaborate, and keep your ideas to yourself. Seems cruel, nonetheless watch over.
6- EMOTIONS: Beware before rely on other peers. People are changeable, mainly when we are considering feelings and emotions. People around you, constantly under the pull of their emotions, change their ideas by the day or by the hour, depending on their mood.
7- PASSIVE AGRESSION: This is something hard to identify and to figure out. It is possible that some people are passively harming you. Although can seem as an accident, they are controlling the dynamic and affecting you under a passive-agressive attack.

In conclusion of it, we can perceive as the capability to read the other and understand certain aspects of human behavior can help us to develop better relationships with our peers, fellows and relatives. As you are crafting the appropriate persona for you, it is necessary to understand that others are trying the same for themselves, and that searching for clues inside human behavior can help us establish better relationships.
Nice week, see you soon!

Talking about happiness

Happiness is something that we are always looking for. Let's talk about it.

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Talking about the strike

I would like to share with you a video where I am talking about our strike at UNIFIEO, and the problems concerning it.

UNIFIEO is an university situated in Osasco, city in the State of São Paulo (Brazil).

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A letter to my wife

Exactly on February 16, thirty four years ago, God took a star above in the universe, opened the sky, and put you inside the planet. Was your birth. Indeed, when He did it He knew that you should be mine. Not as a possession or product, but like a friend, consort, and partner. Furthermore, you are the Love of my life. Of course neither always the life is made by success, blissful and fulfillment. Nonetheless, we have been living together for 14 years, and I can not see us without one another. You know as we get along with, even in dark times.
I would like to be better for you, because you deserve it. In fact, sometimes I can not be like you deserve, but I am trying to be better everyday. Although sometimes you can not believe, because as a human being I can not be perfect, nonetheless I love you even though sometimes disappointing you.
Thus, I still love you so much, as well as I loved you in the beginning, and I will love you everyday unto the end. Indeed you are a gift for me, as a mother for my child and a wife. Doubtless you gave to me my most precious gift, my daughter. She is as you, beautiful, strong, bold, wit and almost perfect. Without both of you I could not be happy, mainly in tough situations. Thank you.
God made one woman to each man in the world, and when God saw me He knew that I would need exactly you. Thanks God, because you have always been taking care of me.
I love to be beside you. Not only during the happy time, but also during the sad moments. Even living difficult times, we always helped one another, and in this life I want to live beside you forever. Indeed, every smile, every look, every smell, every time beside you worth more than the most precious jewel of the world. I want carry on being the man who take care of you as I did, and be prepared to fight against the troubles and enemies that we will find through our way.
Thank you my darling... I love you. Happy birthday!